If the don't fit.
What if the shoe doesn't fit?
You've tried everything to get that foot in the shoe. Ain't happening.
It still doesn't fit. What do you do?
You get a new shoe! Simple.
So why is it that when something in our lives doesn't fit, we keep trying to jam our selves into it? Why is it that we defy all logic to make it work?
A job. A relationship. A lifestyle. A habit. A way of thinking. A feeling. A behavior.
We don't fit in them anymore. They are painful. They aren't us.
If the shoe doesn't fit, get a new one.