There is a direct path and an indirect path in life
The direct path is full on. It is confronting. It is scary. It is powerful. It is stunning. It is responsibility. It is blindsiding. It takes will.
The indirect path is safe. It is gentle. It is kind. It is comfortable. It is gradual. It plays by the rules. It has a safety nets. It is societal.
There is no right or wrong. There isn't.
However, at some point, if we aren't getting what we want in life, we need to get real honest with ourselves and see which path we are or are not choosing.
The answers are there, we just have to be ready to see them.