Leakiness is not a good thing.
Leakiness with your word. With time. With energy. With power. With love. With choice.
Leakiness weakens these things.
It's like having a plastic bag full of water and poking holes in it. Intentionally.
When life gets out of control, begin to find the leaky portions.
The ones that have no integrity.
The best way to stop the leaks...
Is to stop leaking.
Simple as that.