The "wrong way" may be right.
The right way to do it.
What does it look like?
Is it authoritative? Is it loving? Is it funny? Is it serious?
I could never get the "right way" right. I always felt wrong. Because sometimes I was funny. Or serious. Or loving. Or angry. Or whatever the flavor of the day was.
Until I started realizing we are multi-faceted humans. We have different wants. Different likes. Different desires. Different hopes. Different dreams. All shoved in this body of ours.
Somedays we want x and other days we loathe x.
And you know what, it's ok. It's ok to experiment. To make mistakes. To try things and fail.
We are not singular. We are multi.
About damn time to accept that the "right way" might actually be not right at all.
I sure as hell am still learning that.